In a recent blog post, I wrote about Billie Jean King … how nervous I was to talk to her in 1999, even though by that point, I’d been interviewing people for 15 years. It was because of the high regard I had for her, of course, and the gratitude for what she’d done for women and athletics in general.
Because BJK’s message was never just about how knocking down stupid sexist barriers and stereotypes would help women. It was about how it would help men, too. To that end, she’s always credited Riggs for being first the perfect foil and then – when he lost the match – the perfect gentleman.
He made no excuses, he didn’t try to minimize what she did. He said, “She was much too good. I underestimated her.” And the two would remain friends until his death in 1995.
I told BJK my memory of her match with Riggs – about discussing it the day after it happened with my fellow third-graders at recess, about how proud I felt of her. And then I said that she’d probably heard stories like this so many times that she was sick of them.
But she said, no, she didn’t get tired of talking about it. And she said she was glad people kept writing about it, too. Because every time there was a story about it, somebody somewhere might be learning about it for the first time.
I thought about that Saturday upon seeing the crowd of 12,906 at the Oklahoma-Baylor game in Norman. Many people know that 19 years ago, in March 1990, Oklahoma’s women’s basketball program was dissolved. A little more than a week later, after facing much criticism, the school reinstated the program.
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